Cloth Party Favor Bags (With Free Printable!)

I don’t know about you, but anytime I go to an event where there are gift bags for the guests when you leave, well, I always feel like a celebrity picking up their “swag bag” on the way out of an Oscar’s party or something. Giving out little gifts to your guests is a great way to say “thank you for coming” and let them know you appreciate their effort and presence at your event. While it’s totally up to you what items you want to fill your favor bags with, we partnered with Canon USA to share a cute printable so you can customize some cloth favor bags to be as cute as the rest of the decor at your celebration (and you can do it all yourself at home)!

-cloth favor bags (I used these 5″x7″ bags)
-Canon Light Fabric Iron-On Transfers Paper 
Canon PIXMA TS9521C printer
-fabric scissors and iron
favor bag printable (right click to download)

Download the favor bag printables and print them out onto iron-on transfer paper. The Canon PIXMA TS8521C is perfect for craft projects, and Canon just came out with their new new light fabric iron-on transfers paper that we’re loving! You can use it for lighter colored fabrics and the color quality really comes through! If you want to make these at home we have one design option with four of the same designs on one page for making lots of smaller bags like I did and then another option with just one design per page that you can scale up as needed for larger bags. The files are already mirrored for you so they will look right once you iron them on the bag.Cut out your designs with scissors to leave a 1/8″ border all the way around the design. Place the designs face down onto the center of your bag and iron your designs on per your iron-on sheet instructions (I pressed mine with a dry iron on the cotton setting for 60-90 seconds).
Once your designs have cooled, slowly peel off the backing and reveal your design!

How sweet are those?! We made a few different types of designs so there would be one that could work for birthdays, kid parties, baby showers, weddings … basically any party you want!

Depending on what your party is, you can fill your bags with whatever you like! Things like candy, little toys or stickers are great for kid’s parties and small beauty items and candles are fun for showers … the possibilities are endless! I like that these cloth bags can be reused as gift bags again by the guests or they can also store lots of things around the house (I save and use small cloth bags like these when I pack for trips—super helpful for organizing my daughter’s suitcase to hold socks or hair accessories, etc.). I feel like I always appreciate extra little touches like these at events and I love that you can easily batch make these at home with a printer and an iron. These cutie bags are a great end to a fantastic event and I hope that they make it onto your party list soon! xo. Laura

Credits // Author and Photography: Laura Gummerman. Photos edited with A Color Story Desktop. Graphic Design: Mara Dawn.

Episode #17: Wedding Stuff + Traditions We Skipped

This week’s episode is based on a reader question about if there’s anything we’d do differently from our weddings (which were seven and nine years ago now). It was fun to remember our special days and serve up a bit of advice for anyone planning a wedding now. Hope you enjoy it!

You can stream the episode here on the blog or on iTunesSpotifyGoogle PlayTuneInPocket Casts, and Stitcher. You can find the podcast posts archive here.

This week’s episode is sponsored by Agility by Therapedic. Emma shares more in the episode but they are having a HUGE sale for President’s Day. If you’ve been looking for a mattress, sheets or pillows now is a great time to visit their site here. You can save $200 on a queen mattress (or larger) AND you’ll get two free pillows with the purchase. Make sure to check it out! And don’t forget to use the code ‘ABM’ at checkout, they’ll honor the best deal possible for you with that code.

Here are a few photos from Elsie’s wedding:

You can see Elsie’s wedding video here.

Here are a few photos from Emma’s wedding:

-You can see Emma’s wedding video here.

Shout out to Sarah Rhodes who photographed both our weddings and retired from weddings right after Emma’s. She now runs the blog and design company Paro Home.

Other show notes …

-Lol when I say Amy + Tina are hosting the Oscars … oops.

The Outsider … if you’ve been watching, tell us what you think. We’re on the fence.

We’d love to hear your requests for future episodes! This whole episode was inspired by a listener question! xx. Elsie + Emma

How to Make a Wedding Cake

About a year ago, my good friend Shai asked me if I would make her wedding cake. Many years ago, I used to do some cupcake catering on the side, so I’ve made cupcakes for a few weddings. But I’ve never made a tiered cake before. And I was terrified to do so as I really don’t consider myself much of a cake decorator. I love to bake and feel pretty good about that overall, but decorating a tiered cake for a good friend’s wedding sounded like a lot of pressure. But I was thrilled that she asked me to be a part of her big day and I was excited for the challenge. I just needed to figure out how to make a wedding cake. I mean, how hard could it be?

This is the part where I laugh until it trails off and turns into a nervous gulp.

I decided to recruit my talented friend, Amber McGuire, to help me with the decorating and set up of the cake since she previously had worked for a bakery. I learned a lot from Amber, and the cake turned out so good! Shai’s only request was for this peanut butter frosting that I make, so I did that along with vanilla and chocolate cake layers. Really, it was a very simple cake and now that I know a few tricks I learned from Amber, I really think anyone who likes to bake could totally make a wedding cake. So I just thought I’d share in case anyone out there gets asked by their friend to make their wedding cake—it’s not that hard. You can totally do this even if you don’t have a cake decorating pro friend like I did. 🙂

First, think through the flavors of the cake and the recipes you plan to use. If they are recipes you aren’t familiar with, test them out first. You’ll also want to think about how much cake will be needed, depending on how big the guest list is. I thought this article was helpful. Based on that article, the wedding cake I made should have served around 100-120 guests (she was expecting more like 150 guests). I was aiming a little low just because in my experience not everyone eats cake at a wedding, especially if dinner and drinks are being served (which they were at this one). I saw there was some extra cake slices left over, but it was probably around 10 or maybe a few more, so that worked out. But you will also want to think about if a groom’s cake is being served, if any other desserts are being offered, and if the couple would like to save the top tier for their first anniversary (does anyone still do this?).

My bottom tier was three 10-inch layers, the middle tier was two 8-inch layers, and the top tier was two 6-inch layers. I simply alternated the layers between vanilla and chocolate and used all peanut butter frosting throughout.

You’ll want to bake the wedding cake layers 1-2 weeks before (or even more) and freeze them. This is the secret to really good wedding cake!

For the vanilla cake, I used this recipe from Sally’s Baking Addiction. For the chocolate cake, I used this recipe from Smitten Kitchen. I had made these cake recipes before and loved them, so I doubled the recipes it needed and that’s what I used. How did they hold up in a tiered wedding cake? The vanilla cake recipe is cake flour based and uses a mix of baking powder and soda as the main leavening agents. That makes this cake pretty sturdy, so it held up really well and I would totally recommend this as the recipe you use for an entire tiered cake if needed. The chocolate cake recipe is all-purpose flour based and uses baking soda and vinegar as the main leavening agents. This makes for a softer cake (think fluffy and moist—really great cake!), so it worked well in this tiered cake alongside the sturdier vanilla cake layers. But if I had been making the entire wedding cake chocolate, I think this recipe might be a little too soft to hold up well. The freezing helps, but if you are going that route I would test a few other chocolate cake recipes and find what you think will work for the size of your cake.

Once the cakes are baked, allow them to completely cool. Then wrap tightly in plastic wrap before freezing. Be careful when freezing them to stack or layer so that they don’t freeze with dents or bumps from other things that may be in your freezer. Also, you can tell this from the photo, but just to be super clear, you won’t level off the cakes until you frost them. So freeze them without leveling the layers.

I made the frosting the day before the wedding, but it could probably be made up to a week before (depending on the recipe you use) and refrigerated. Make sure you have enough containers to hold the amount of frosting you make. I had actually brought a friend (who just had a baby) dinner the week before this wedding and didn’t think how many of my reusable containers would still be at her house by the time I needed them to make this frosting. So, I ended up cleaning out a container I don’t usually use for this purpose (although it can be) since I was short.

I used my peanut butter frosting recipe and tripled it. That ended up being pretty much perfect for this sized cake, with just a little bit left over. But if you are unsure, I would err on the side of making too much frosting over not enough.

You may also want to buy or borrow a cooler to transport the frozen cake layers and frosting in. This really depends on weather, if the wedding is outdoors, and what the venue’s facilities are like. This wedding cake was for an outdoor wedding in southern Missouri in mid-June—so it was hot and humid! I was VERY afraid of the cake melting. I was once a bridesmaid for a friend whose wedding cake partially melted and it leaned so much it fell off the table before her wedding began. Her wedding was still such a beautiful event, but it was sad to see all that delicious cake on the ground. The tragedy!

The night before the wedding, we leveled the frozen cake layers, placed them on cake boards, and frosted each tier. These were wrapped and refrigerated and then transported the day of the wedding. The venue had a refrigerator we could use to store the tiers in as we did the final assembly just before the reception. We wanted to assemble the cake at the last possible moment, hoping this would prevent any melting from the Midwest weather. The cake did get a little sweaty, but other than that, it held up and tasted great, so I think this was the best call for our situation.

A few tips on this step of the process. So, each tier of the cake will be on its own cake board. Since this wedding cake had three tiers, it also had three cake boards throughout. This allows you to move the tiers to assemble, as well as remove as you slice it to serve. The bottom tier can go directly on a coated cardboard cake board (as the cake will only be touching the coated part). The other two cake boards will need to be covered in plastic wrap or parchment or something so that the bottom of the cardboard cake board doesn’t touch the underneath tier once assembled.

As you can see from the above photo, you’ll also want a turntable so you can easily spin the cake as you frost and assemble. Amber showed me that you can cut up some shelf liner to place underneath so the cake doesn’t slide around as you work. I displayed the cake on a wood slab, but you could use other cake displays for whatever look you you wanted.

For a tiered wedding cake, you’ll also want to insert wooden dowel rods into the bottom tiers (all tiers except the top). This just makes the cake stronger and more stable. You can buy wooden dowels in the cake decorating section of any craft store or online. Just cut the dowels the size of the tier before carefully inserting (with clean hands—do everything while making a wedding cake with clean hands, of course).

Once we added the dowels, we popped the tiers back into the refrigerator, trying to keep them as cold as possible since it was so hot that day and we were outdoors.

Once you are ready to assemble, stack the tiers carefully. To cover the line between the tiers, pipe a little more frosting on the seam and gently level out with an offset spatula.

Just to better illustrate what all is in this wedding cake other than cake and frosting, here is a visual that I think really shows off my Photoshop skills as well:

Once fully assembled, you can decorate however you like. Since Shai had requested the peanut butter frosting, I knew the cake was going to be a light brown. Her wedding colors were gray and blush pink, so I wanted to represent those colors in any other decor I could. We added a pink chocolate drip to the top layer for some added color (done by simply melting pink candy melts and using a spoon to drip over the edge). I also purchased some pink felt flowers from Etsy that I had cleaned and disinfected as best I could to add some more color around the cake.

Another great option is to use edible flowers or edible gold leaf, but I had a hard time finding the right colors I needed, so I went with felt flowers in the end.

It was really fun, although a little bit nerve-wracking, to get to be a part of making this wedding cake. But it was an absolute JOY to see my friends get married and be a small part of their day—I am so grateful. Thanks for letting me share! And I’d love to hear if any of you have made a tiered wedding cake for your or a friend’s big day. Do you have more tips? Tells us all the secrets! xo. Emma

Credits // Author and Photography: Emma Chapman. Photos edited with A Color Story Desktop. Thank you to Amber McGuire for teaching me your cake decorating ways and helping me on such an important day!

Secret To Dressing Insanely Sharp For Any Type Of Engagement Party

What To Wear To An Engagement Party

If you’re anything like me, chances are everyone you know is getting engaged. And with this comes the ensuing set of parties in every conceivable shape and size. From white themed harbour cruises to swanky cocktail events – when a friend chooses to tie the knot, they're bound to do it with their...

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5 Years Later – Our Wedding Day

Trey and I are going to be celebrating our 5-year anniversary this week! I can hardly believe it’s been 5 years already. I know there are some of you who have been reading this blog for that long, but I have a hunch some you may be a bit newer. So I thought it might be fun to put together a little post for you of our wedding day with links to all the DIY projects, and also some tips I want to share for anyone who may be getting married soon out there. I must confess, I LOVED our wedding and there isn’t a lot I would change, given the chance.

 Probably my favorite thing from our wedding (other than getting to marry my best friend, as obviously that was hands down the best part!) was my dress. My sister designed it and, along with a few other friends, made it for me. I know a DIY wedding dress isn’t for everyone, but I loved my dress SOOOO much. Since it was made for me, it fit perfectly and I felt was a good style for my body type. I felt so pretty in that dress. And it felt extra special knowing my sister and friends had created it for me.

You can read more about how my wedding dress was made here.

I put together a video about all my wedding DIYs and why I think DIY is so special.

My brother also had a hand in creating things for our wedding. I loved the letter pressed invites he designed. I still have the press from these hanging on our bookshelves in our living room. Doren also designed our wedding day program and reception menu/program.

I created this book for our rings to go in, that our ring bearer (our nephew, Ryland) carried during the ceremony. Trey and I met in college, and we were both philosophy majors. One of the classes we took together was philosophy of literature and we read Brave New World in that class. Or maybe I should say I read the book and Trey mostly would just ask me questions about the reading at the beginning of class. I am not sure he actually read the books (ha—I’ve outed you at last, Trey!).

Anyway, that was the inspiration behind this DIY. I still have this book in our living room. Of course you can’t read it anymore, but I have it on display (we own this book in paperback too). If you’ve never read Brave New World, it’s really good! Highly recommend.

My sister and our friends put together all the wedding day bouquets. I am terrible at floral design— like really bad. So I was thankful they did this. I LOVED how they all turned out. And we put together a post on tips for making your own wedding bouquets because it is a great way to save a little in your budget if you need. Great floral design is also totally worth the money if you have the budget, but it’s one thing we choose to just do ourselves.

We also had a pretty unique guestbook. We’ve had this displayed in both our homes over the years. I just rearranged things again recently though and I need to find a new spot to hang him—I still really love it!

Here’s my number one piece of advice to anyone getting married. Invest in your wedding photos!

We had an amazing, super talented photographer (hi, Sarah!). So that’s a big piece of it—find someone you feel comfortable around and whose style of photography you love. And then I totally recommend taking extra time to get great photos. We did some portraits on our wedding day (both of just us and ones with our family and wedding party). But we also chose to get portraits the day before as well. I know it’s not traditional and may not be the right choice for everyone—it’s totally up to each couple what they want to do. But I am SO thankful for the extra set of portraits we did because I love them so much and we never would have had enough time on our wedding day to get that many pictures together. Of all the photos Trey and I have together though I really do cherish our wedding photos so, so much. If you feel like you will be the same way, then it’s worth planning for and investing in.

You can see our wedding portraits here: One/Two/Three

We choose to have our ceremony outdoors (worth the risk of rain to me!) at my grandmother’s home, which is a small cabin on a pond out in rural southwest Missouri, about 45 minutes from where Trey and I live. This was logistically a little tricky because we had to have rented chairs delivered there. We also rented some canoes that we used as seating on the water’s edge, and we also had a port-o-potty rented for the day as well (TMI? Sorry, just a reality of having a big outdoor party).

I am super grateful my grandmother was totally fine with all the people and chaos the day brought. She didn’t mind but I still appreciate her attitude and willingness to let me get married at her home. It was perfect.

And here’s one other little tip or piece of advice I share often—wear a different dress to your reception if you need to. For some reason, I feel like sometimes gals are afraid to do this, like maybe they think it will seem high maintenance? I’m not sure. But dancing in my wedding dress would have been challenging, so I opted to change into a vintage dress that my friend Mallory had altered for me. Plus, it’s your day. If you want to wear two dresses, do it! Unless you’re a pop star performing a concert, I feel like this may be your only chance to have a legitimate wardrobe change if you feel like it, so I say go for it!

I loved our reception, which you can see more photos of here. Laura really set the whole thing up and she made it so beautiful. I am forever grateful.

I’ve linked to a ton of posts I’ve done on our wedding, so if you want to see more, feel free to click around (here’s our wedding video too). I could probably mention 10x as many little details, but I’ve already just typed out over 1,000 words for you to get through, so I guess I’ll stop for now. Thanks for letting me share as I celebrate 5 years with my best friend this week. It’s true that it gets better and better all the time. I look at these photos and I sincerely feel like I love Trey even more now than I did 5 years ago, which is just crazy. I can’t wait for the next 5 years together! xo. Emma

Credits // Author: Emma Chapman. Our wedding photographer was Sarah Rhodes, other image credits are listed in the links to the posts.

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